Do you feel your mojo changing? Shifting?
For some women their sex appeal and appetite increase, for others it decreases.
What’s it like for you?
Do you have a healthy relationship with yourself? Meaning…do you really know yourself?
Head to toe, inside and out, every nook and cranny?
At this stage of your life do you know what you like, how you like it and when?
Have you tuned into all the little nuances that turn you on- or off for that matter?
Are you able to speak up and communicate effectively with your partner (or know how to handle yourself if that’s where you are right now) as to the tempo and rhythm that floats your boat…so to speak.
Getting in tune with your body is not always easy but it is necessary. Are you able to please yourself (that’s an M word for another post) or do you rely on someone else to get you to the finish line?
A big concern seems to be vaginal dryness.
Many women enlist the aid of a lubricant to ease the dryness and/or discomfort they might feel during sex.
Do you prefer a prescription lubricant, an over the counter one or good old fashion coconut oil? (warning coconut oil is FANTASTIC and a little goes a long way, however, if you’re using a condom it renders it ineffective – so be forewarned).
Your mojo isn’t just about sex. Your sex appeal and how you feel about yourself is paramount.
Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? Does it make you smile?
If not, are you actively working on ‘improvements’ or are you too busy beating yourself up for not being/ looking as good as you could?
Let’s face it, we could all improve something. What is it that you would like to ‘enhance’ or ‘improve?’
If you had a list of just 3 things that would make you more comfortable in your skin if it were ‘better’ in some way….what would they be? Would you be daring enough to share what they are?
I’ll show you mine if you show me yours 😉 (my list, that is)